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The evolution of wisdom

No one thinks alone. Pick a question and follow it forward: the text that asked it first, the traditions that reached for it again centuries later and half a world away, and the people answering it now.

Parenting

What is one thing about parenting (or being parented) that surprised you — and what did you learn from it?

Raising people, being raised, the long handoff between generations.

  1. ~10th c. BCE – 1st c. CE

    Hebrew & Christian Bible

    Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, the Psalms, the Sermon on the Mount, and the parables. Foundational to Western moral language.

  2. ~8th c. BCE – 4th c. CE

    Hinduism

    Bhagavad Gita and Upanishads — dialogues on duty, action, and self.

  3. ~6th – 4th c. BCE

    Taoism

    Tao Te Ching, attributed to Laozi — terse, paradoxical aphorisms on living with the grain of things.

    • It produces them and makes no claim to the possession of them; it carries them through their processes and does not vaunt its ability in doing so; it brings them to maturity and exercises no control over them;--this is called its mysterious operation.

      Laozi describes the Tao's way of nurturing all things without possessiveness, pride, or domination — offered as a model for human conduct.

    • If we could renounce our sageness and discard our wisdom, it would be better for the people a hundredfold. If we could renounce our benevolence and discard our righteousness, the people would again become filial and kindly. If we could renounce our artful contrivances and discard our (scheming for) gain, there would be…

      Laozi argues that imposed moral frameworks and clever schemes corrupt society more than they improve it.

  4. ~5th c. BCE onward

    Buddhism

    Dhammapada and selected sutras — terse, principle-rich verses on suffering, attachment, and right action.

  5. ~5th c. BCE

    Confucianism

    Analects of Confucius — sayings on conduct, governance, and moral cultivation.

    • The filial piety of now-a-days means the support of one's parents. But dogs and horses likewise are able to do something in the way of support;-- without reverence, what is there to distinguish the one support given from the other?

      Confucius argues that merely providing for parents is not enough; true filial piety requires reverence, not just material care.

      ↓ Reached for again — Qur’an, 7th c. CE46% resonance

      Thy Lord hath ordained that ye worship none but him; and, kindness to your parents, whether one or both of them attain to old age with thee: and say not to them, 'Fie!' neither reproach them; but speak to them both with…

      Qur'an, 17.17:23-24, tr. J. M. Rodwell, 1861

    • In serving his parents, a son may remonstrate with them, but gently; when he sees that they do not incline to follow his advice, he shows an increased degree of reverence, but does not abandon his purpose; and should they punish him, he does not allow himself to murmur.

      ↓ Reached for again — Qur’an, 7th c. CE60% resonance

      Thy Lord hath ordained that ye worship none but him; and, kindness to your parents, whether one or both of them attain to old age with thee: and say not to them, 'Fie!' neither reproach them; but speak to them both with…

      Qur'an, 17.17:23-24, tr. J. M. Rodwell, 1861

  6. 3rd c. BCE – 2nd c. CE

    Stoicism

    Greco-Roman school of practical philosophy on virtue, agency, and acceptance. Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, Seneca.

    • 'As often as a father kisseth his child, he should say secretly with himself' (said Epictetus,) 'tomorrow perchance shall he die.' But these words be ominous. No words ominous (said he) that signify anything that is natural.

      Marcus quotes Epictetus on holding parental love alongside the awareness of a child's mortality—not as morbidity but as acceptance of nature.

    • Of my grandfather Verus I have learned to be gentle and meek, and to refrain from all anger and passion. From the fame and memory of him that begot me I have learned both shamefastness and manlike behaviour. Of my mother I have learned to be religious, and bountiful; and to forbear, not only to do, but to intend any ev…

      Aurelius opens his Meditations by cataloguing virtues he learned from family members.

  7. ~3rd c. CE

    Rabbinic Judaism

    Pirkei Avot (Ethics of the Fathers) — concise principles for living, distilled from the early rabbinic period.

    • Whoever causes the multitudes to be righteous, sin will not occur on his account; And whoever causes the multitudes to sin, they do not give him the ability to repent.

      The mishna teaches that a leader bears collective moral responsibility for those they influence.

      ↓ Reached for again — Qur’an, 7th c. CE48% resonance

      If ye do well, to your own behoof will ye do well: and if ye do evil, against yourselves will ye do it.

      Qur'an, 17.17:7, tr. J. M. Rodwell, 1861

    • Let the honor of your student be as dear to you as your own, and the honor of your colleague as the reverence for your teacher, and the reverence for your teacher as the reverence of heaven.

      ↓ Reached for again — Qur’an, 7th c. CE48% resonance

      Thy Lord hath ordained that ye worship none but him; and, kindness to your parents, whether one or both of them attain to old age with thee: and say not to them, 'Fie!' neither reproach them; but speak to them both with…

      Qur'an, 17.17:23-24, tr. J. M. Rodwell, 1861

  8. 7th c. CE

    Qur’an

    Central scripture of Islam. Ethical teachings, parables, and prophetic narratives.

    • Kill not your children for fear of want: for them and for you will we provide. Verily, the killing them is a great wickedness.

      A prohibition against infanticide, practiced in pre-Islamic Arabia, framed as a reassurance that God provides for all.

    • Thy Lord hath ordained that ye worship none but him; and, kindness to your parents, whether one or both of them attain to old age with thee: and say not to them, 'Fie!' neither reproach them; but speak to them both with respectful speech; And defer humbly to them out of tenderness; and say, 'Lord, have compassion on th…

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